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What do we do in a sacred intimacy session?


Sacred Intimacy is a combination of spirituality, pleasure work, and therapy. In other words, we start with the understanding that sexuality is related to soul work. We use mindfulness and integrity to help you identify, embrace, and practice sexual embodiment as an expression of the soul. We hold the body as sacred and view erotic energy as a crucial component of human life and spiritual health. Our primary intention is that of healing -- and by healing we mean not just addressing the wounds to the spirit and the flesh caused by sexual abuse, addiction, or disease but also acknowledging that the fun and the pleasure, the vitality and the divine mystery of sex have nourishing properties in and of themselves.

We start with an intention.

We all have desires in our sexual life. Oftentimes, life offers impediments to exploring those desires. In a Sacred Intimacy session, we always start out with finding a clear intention that will help you dive deeper into your body, your sexuality, and your spiritual work.

For example:

  • I want to learn how to be more present in my body while having sex

  • I want to learn how to be a better communicator during sex

  • I want to learn how to be a better top/bottom, dom/sub

  • I suffer from anger issues and want to find a way to release it

  • I have a history of prior sexual abuse and want to learn to move past my triggers

  • My body no longer allows me to access sexual pleasure the way I knew how. I want to learn to find other expressions of my sexual energy.

  • I want to wake up a part of my body (nipples, prostate, etc) that feels "dead"

  • I have a unique desire that I find hard to fulfill with other sexual partners

  • I have a role play fantasy that I want to enact

  • I'm having a difficult time with grief, and I don't feel very "sexual" at all. I want to move through it.

  • My partner says I'm not good at (kissing / touching / giving blowjobs / bottoming / topping / etc) and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong.

We craft a ritual.

Using the principles of consent (caring for oneself and each other), we will craft a ritual that will help fulfill your intention. There are a range of modalities that can be offered. For example:

  • breath work

  • consent/communication games

  • erotic massage

  • role play

  • flogging, bondage, spanking

  • anger release work

  • grief work / death ritual

Sometimes it takes several sessions to work on an intention. Sometimes once is enough.

A rough price estimate is $250 for the first hour, and $75 for each additional half-hour. However, depending on your specific intention and requests, the price may be adjusted up or down.


Image taken from The Nipple Whisperer, a book about Sacred Intimacy

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